Learning that you have lost your job, for whatever reason, is one of the most stressful life events that anyone can imagine going through. When it happens, it is hard to see any positives, and all too easy we descend into panic and depression. But take a deep breath, gather your resources and take a good look at your life and the work life balance that you want to achieve. You might just find it is the best thing that could have happened. We all know that the economy is in a fragile state and this is a difficult time…