Most baby showers have gender as a central theme that is obvious in the pink or blue decorations and the piles of gender-specific gifts. But you don’t have to go down this road. There are plenty of reasons to plan a gender-neutral baby shower. Maybe you want to keep the gender a surprise, welcome multiples of different genders, or simply celebrate your baby without traditional pink-and-blue constraints. Read on for some tips to help you throw a fun, inclusive bash!
Forget About Pink and Blue
Don’t worry about filling your home with pink and blue. Instead, simply decorate with colors you love. Many gender-neutral showers feature neutral or metallic tones, as these are the least culturally suggestive of any gender, but it’s completely up to you.
Pick a Theme
When the theme isn’t gender, what can it be? One cute idea is a “ready to hatch” theme that uses birds or eggs. Another option if you want a ton of color is a rainbow theme, which celebrates diversity and joy while remaining completely gender-neutral. The “birds and the bees” could also embody the perfectly playful, adorable vibe you’re after.
Plan Activities That Don’t Center on Gender
Don’t have guests guess the baby’s gender. Instead, have them cast their votes for the baby’s birth weight, length, or date.
Another special idea is to have each guest write an advice card to share parenting wisdom or something for you to read during those frazzled, late-night feeding sessions.
Design a Thoughtful Menu
When you look on Pinterest for food ideas, you’ll be met with pin upon pin of intricate blue and pink creations. Planning a gender-neutral baby shower makes food prep easy because there’s no theme—just deliciousness!
Finger foods work best since guests will be mingling and playing games. Mini sandwiches, fruit kabobs, tiny muffins, and cheese cubes are all solid picks because they’re small, snackable, and crowd pleasers.
Give Ideas for Gender-Neutral Gifts
When guest receive their invitation, they might worry about the gift they’ll bring. They can’t get that cute pink floral onesie or that tiny T-shirt that says, “Bad Boy for Life.” Give your guests some inspiration by requesting specific things you actually need in styles that don’t reflect a specific gender or cultural expectation. For instance, personalized pacifier holders are great gifts because they’re practical and don’t have to speak to gender. Instead, they can feature a simple design (like a heart) or the baby’s name (if you’re sharing this).
In the end, your baby shower should reflect your preferences, not society’s. Trust your instincts about what feels right for your celebration. The most important element isn’t perfect decorations or elaborate games—it’s gathering people who love you and your growing family.